What are the dangers from marrying some one from china and how can I protect my self?

I going to someday marrying my girlfriend from china and dont want to lose everything I I have to her if she dos take off. I know I take one to two years for her to come to the usa but just want to play it safe. If someone who is marry to a china woman or had one run from thim onec thay got there green card what did happn or what did you do. I do love her and trust her but just playing it safe. She work very good job and had own home in china. She never ask me for money or want nothing from me, she answers all my questions and she never talks bad about life. She alwas very happy. Just want to know what would happn if she did really take off once she got green card.

What are the dangers from marrying some one from china and how can I protect my self?
Let me ask you 1 thing.





What is good thing about getting a green card anyway?


Is it huge lottery ticket?


I don't understand about it, but if I think about China...maybe I should understand them why they want to get green card badly. you know, it is China. well...





I guess your biggist concern is loosing her. cuz you love her much as you said. and also you don't want to get hurt from her. and also at the same time you worring about other side of possibility of that GREEN CARD part. what if she using you to getting a green card. I can understand. if I were you I MIGHT worring about it too.





As I read your question, she seems pretty happy with her life in China and everything seems so great so far. then why don't you just give it a chance to belive in her?


I as a woman, I just want to be loved very much and want to love somebody very much without condition. ( well...but still out thtere It is quite worldy world by now so, many ppl are just looking for what they want to get which is like money, green card etc etc. BUT I BELIEVE not everyone is like that. )





It is quite sad story to hear from you. you love her AND you worring about it... it is sad.





I wonder... Let's say after she gets a green card, she rans away, then how she can be safe or living well without you in america with just that paper? It is scary part as a woman like me.





Hm... here is little bit interesting story that I've made. Let's say she want to have Green card, and at the same time she loves you and don't running away from you. then~ you know, she gets her green card and you gets your love. then~! win win situation!





haha!








And for last coment.


love without trust = dead realationship I think.





If you don't trust her. I am very much doubt about your future life with her.





I wish your best for your life with someone anyway.
Reply:You dick! Obviously you don't trust her. Leave now and save her and yourself alot of heartache in the future.
Reply:Can happened like in America happened. She has the same rights.


And you can be even obligated to pay alimony like child support if she doesn't work for her. USA Embassy can help you to do paper work. I don't want to skier you or telling you too much is something like trust but money and easy life who knows. You don't have any idea how much you gonna like soy souse everyday and many things too many.


God Bless you very much.
Reply:the danger is u have to get ur self ready for chinese food
Reply:If you're so doubtful about her then you may as well forget it....Can't you find a woman with a green card already so you can be sure its you she wants and not the green card. We all know the stories about these citizenship thing s and most of them are true !!!
Reply:I won't say not to marry but be extremely careful because I know a lot of China girls who have married for money or to get out of their country just to obtain a green card. And of course they will not ask you for money now, but after you get married, they will demand an "allowance". I know someone who got engaged to a china girl, and a 3rd party (friend of the groom) intervened at their wedding day and demanded the wedding not to take place because the 3rd party found out that she had demanded a huge monthly allowance of 4 figures, plus money and a house to her family. They did eventually get married on the second round cos she convinced everyone she actually did love him. Anyway, if she took off after she got the green card, she wont be able to marry again cos technically, she's still married to you and she'd have to come back to divorce you first. Why dont you suggest to move to China with her...see what she says. If she agrees, then she really loves you and she doesn't want to get a green card.
Reply:hey, what was that...think..U LOVE HER but U dont trust her...Pls. get out of her else she will be in trouble.
Reply:do not marry
Reply:If you are in love, you just want to be together, no matter where, right?....Why don't you emigrate to China and get a chinese green card instead.......