I know a woman that wants to leave her husband because, marriage sucks but she doesn't have green card.?

They have been married for almost three years but she hasn't recieved her green card yet and is affraind to leave him for fear she will be sent back to China. The marriage was not just to get a green card they were truly in love but he hasn't worked since they were married and he has had trouble with the law for extorting money from his last job . He has never told her any details of what happened but he takes 1000.00 dollars every month to repay his debt. She want out of the marriage, is there any good advice that might help her. She really doesn't have money for an Immigration Lawyer, nor do I to help her. Any options, or good answers out there ?

I know a woman that wants to leave her husband because, marriage sucks but she doesn't have green card.?
Come on now you know she married him for the green card. She should just go back to her country and live with her family. All is well that's ends well. Her back home, and him with the debt he will get stuck with.
Reply:It always amazes me how many 'green card' marriages suddenly fail after the two year temporary green card is up and the ten year card application is in progress. (just look at the Yahoo answers boards)





Maybe the government should up the two years to five years, this way it will stop people marrying each other, who are clearly unsuitable for each other at the start of the marriage.
Reply:Sounds like there is no communication in their marriage, and there needs to be. She needs to sit down and talk with her husband and tell him what she is feeling. For better or worse is the way marriage is.
Reply:If she is looking to marry just to get the green card I think I know someone who is trustworthy and willing to help. Get in touch with me if interested
Reply:Did she already apply for the Green Card? If she did from the start of when she got here she should be getting it any day now.


If she didn't apply, she needs to go on www.USCIS.gov and buy the N-400 Form (Permanent Resident Card aka Green Card). Fill it out and send it.
Reply:She took marriage vows for better of worse and for "Love" then she should do whatever she can to help him pay the debt and get their lives back together.


It's always for better or for worse but as soon as things go wrong people just want to run away and abandon the one they loved.


People lie about things in marriage but they can work it out. If she has fallen out of love that's OK but I just hate to see people just dumping their marriage because it starts to get a little sticky. It's like Bill and Hillary Clinton and many many others that realize there is no perfection in life and that we have to work it out.


She will only find someone else who has the potential to lie to her. I'd like to see her work through it if she can.


Needing a green card is just using him at this point if she really wants to get out. Maybe they deserve each other.

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